Complex Chemistry

I somehow got addicted to Big Boss Season 2.

It is not very cool to walk into the house after hours of toiling in office, keep coffee in microwave with restless hands, fight guilt pangs of postponing gym and search for the day’s episodes on youtube. Though such obsession seems childish, I have my reasons. This may sound like a cover-up but I think the program talk’s volumes about human psychology, the chemistry of human interactions and the gospel art of living.

Following are of my observations of people, based on this show which incidently match well with my day to day interactions with other Homo Sapiens....

• Everyone believes he/she is right.
• Everyone believes that in a confrontational situation irrespective of their role, that they have been wronged.
• If someone doesn’t like you there is nothing you can do to change their mind.
• Complexes define personality.
• It is easy, almost innate to take bad relationships on a downhill path, immensely difficult to redeem it.
• Crying is a weapon for women that ensure undivided attention.
• Revenge is best served cold.
• You have to practice a lot of silence to earn value for your spoken words.
• Looks matter.
• Only winners can be graceful.
• Life is not a game of chess where your winning or losing will matter. Life is a takeaway food joint with a long queue where your moving smoothly without creating a hassle counts.