It’s very tough to be talkative and extrovert. It mandates
the need of another person around you. This is not only because psychiatry has
not evolved enough to distinguish between crazy self-talking and desperate
self-talking, but because punch-lines do not sound as good when coming from
self.
Respect talking, a good conversation is an art. From the
many types of conversations, some of my fav categories are: “say nothing”
(small talk), “what say Sherlock?”(get advice), “fish-bone”(analyze),”the pain”
(venting session), “story telling”(dream-up),”good crap”(PJ contest), “sisterhood”(matching
notes on life) ,”godman”(give advice),”superhero”(one listens awestruck) …..
All artists should be cynical even though being creative is
their need. A painter needs to paint, a poet needs to write, a composer needs
to make music … but they shall not plead and be desperate. They shall wait for
the moment, the mood and the magic; throw tantrums; twist and turn; never pour
just drip J
Being talkative and brimming from thoughts should not make you
tolerant and accepting to talk to everyone who is ready to talk to you. You may
not welcome everyone in your world with open arms, you may still judge and re-calibrate people in your life and you may still be very willing to show
people the door as per your whims. The non-desperation transforms you from the irksome
guy lurking at the smoking zone to the respectfully invited coffee mate; from
laughable babbling of person speaking random thoughts to get them out of ones
system to an intriguing intellectual.
Internet is always there when the emitting the eminent
thoughts is vehemently essential.
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